Pretty toxic relationship with mum which reached exploding point today

2021.09.25 02:44 NotTheH3ntaiAccount Pretty toxic relationship with mum which reached exploding point today

So to start this off my name's Henry and I'm 16. I've been depressed for about 3 years because I had no friends. I would insert myself into groups of people out of desperation to not appear alone. during the 1st quarantine I made friends with a guy who is now my best friend and introduced me to my current friend group. Anyway for context. I have a very unhealthy relationship with my parents, especially my mother. We constantly argue and they almost always end with each other verbally berating each other. She's thrown stuff at me sometimes (My mums not physically abusive) and I'm almost always shouting.I think my mum is a pathological liar when it suits her, I don't trust her enough to share my mental struggles (asked for a therapy session she said I didn't need one) with and I think she twists and manipulates my words to get stuff to work her way. She also guilt trips me a lot
To the point, my parents have been forcefully dragging me and my siblings down to our holiday home which is a ways away from where my friends live. the issue is that this has been going on for about 6 months, every weekend, away from my friends. Me and my brother naturally wanted to discuss letting us spend some Weekend's at our actual home, as we don't get many chances to meet with our busy college schedules. My mum said no because she didn't trust me and my twin even though we've never shown signs of being irresponsible (I'm serious I'm quite boring). My mum then said that responsibility wasn't the issue but said this was because she didn't like the disrespectful attitude me and my twin have towards her. She said she wouldn't let us if we didn't reach a certain threshold (which she hadn't decided upon yet) of respect for her. I explained to my mother that me spending time with my friends was very important to my mental health. We offered an alternative which was that we be allowed to spend some Weekend's down at home and that if dip below the threshold my mum creates for us, that we not be allowed to be home that weekend, that way we'd maintain a respectful attitude. My mum said no. We proceed to go around in circles as we got more and more heated until my father decided to blast his music at full volume to end the argument. I was beyond being reasonable at this point as my mum was loosing her point and was on the defensive saying she was the parent and her word was final. We'd been arguing for over an hour at this point and had gotten nowhere. I was now very emotional and irrational and decided that after 5 minutes I decided to tell my parents I wanted to say something before they blasted music. They listened, stopped the music, and I then told them that I had never really said it but I hated both of them. A bit after it all hit me like a freight train and I had a mental breakdown and started to cry (pretty pathetic, I know), which I haven't done for about a year, while listening to Mrs Jackson on Spotify.
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2021.09.25 02:44 Royal_Significance41 CONFUSED

I’m at a point right now that I don’t know if my medication is helping me or making me worse. I’m thinking of weening off Lamictal 200mg.. which I’ve taken for over 20 years when they first did a study on how it could help bipolar disorder not just siezers. I did try lithium first. I was on PROZAC same amount of time before it was fluoxetine.. 60mg.. then they recently put me effexer. I just want to ween off everything and be somewhat normal.
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2021.09.25 02:44 Revolutionary-Bee135 Sudden and temporary visual loss

Hello, community. I apologize in advance for such a silly and weird post, I, myself, have no idea what just happened.
Before all else; 24 y/o, male, no known conditions.
About half an hour ago, I was reading something in my phone when I realized that I couldn’t see the bottom left of the paragraphs. Not that I saw a black dot or anything; it was like I couldn’t process that region. It happened in both eyes (I checked by covering one and the the other). It rapidly advanced, to the point where I had trouble seeing the left half of my face in front of a mirror (again, no black dot, blurring or lack of peripheral vision; the general shape was there, I just couldn’t see it unless I actively focused).
It lasted for... 8 minutes? I seem to be alright now, I decided to simply go to bed and type this, lol.
It wasn’t painful, but, for reference, I wouldn’t like it to happen while driving. It got to the point where I couldn’t text and see the keyboard at the same time.
Any ideas? I may go to have my eyes checked tomorrow (it’s 2:00 am here). I was actually about to call when it stopped.
Thanks in advice, have a nice day!
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2021.09.25 02:44 ctmajic Cooking Clubs?

Hey Everyone!
My girlfriend and I moved to Alexandria recently and we are trying to meet some new friends. We both and into cooking and food and I was wondering if there is a local cooking club out there? I am super into bread baking and thought it would be a cool thing to join. Any ideas?
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2021.09.25 02:44 GeneralSturnn 31 [M4F] USA Florida/Anywhere - Looking for my soulmate

I am serious, READ the whole post before messaging me please.
Hello, hi! back at it again!
On a side note, I paintball sometimes, if you're not in Florida, well I am open to moving, but also open to you moving closer to me(provided we mix well enough, but we'll figure out if we're a match in due time!)
I love going to conventions(Megacon, Omni Expo, Metrocon) to name a few and I usually Cosplay.
I go out to a movie once and awhile, Pizza, LOVE pizza, Pizza is love, Pizza is life, I sometimes go to malls, just to walk around and window shop, at times I feel a good drive is for for everyone's soul.
I talk a lot about Games, Politics, History, theories as well, I also ready a lot of books on those related topics too, I like LOTR, Harry Potter, Star Wars, Doom, Halo, Resident Evil, for Potter I am a Hufflepuff (Don't make fun of us!) and am an avid Doctor Who fan with my favorite so far being the 10th.
While I mentioned I do love games, I prefer spending time with someone, I'll drop virtually anything to spend time with someone I care for, I want someone in my life more than I want a virtual machine.
I have started(re) streaming and hope to make a career out of it, in addition I 3D print models and sell them sometimes.
I have gone to Megacon for the past 5 years, Metro a couple times, Omni-Expo a few times.
I also still live with my Family(Hope it's not a problem, but rent is F*cking expensive unless you have two part time jobs, or a single well paying full time job) I'm afraid my anxiety levels do not allow me to do too terribly much, but I have had a job since 2013!..
Lives with family?: Sure, I don't mind if you live with them, can't expect you to have a castle if I don't have one!
Feel free to Message me me! I'm terrible at start up convo's, but will chat your ear off if you start first! as a note, if you have no intentions talking to me at all, do not message me.
In case you don't know where to start in convo(trust me, I know it's hard! I have a hard time messaging people first, and some of you, just message me with a single:"Hi" and then leave me on read, I'll respond still because everyone deserves a chance! so now for some possible convo starters!
"I like (Insert Doctor here) he's the best one in the Whoniverse"
"I like (insert favorite character here and preferably which verse he/she is from) who's yours?"
that's not all you can do, you can think up something I'm sure of it! you've already read this far I hope! I wanna hear from ya.
Oh, and, since I am seeking a relationship, please, no kids, at all, unless they're grown/out of house, I don't even want any in the future.
A few more thing about me: I'm nostalgic for older games, SNES, NES, Dreamcast, N64, OG Xbox, PS1 and 2 and movies to an extent(Longest Day being one of my favorites).
Due to my levels of shyness and anxiety from reaching out first... I have a LOT of anxiety due to various things in life, 14 years of it, so please... if you plan on talking to me, do so with the intention of finding your kindred soul
I don't really like texting, as I do a lot of writing(and I mean it! I write a lot!) but I'll message back and forth until you feel comfortable enough to speak.
I miss the feeling of having someone to wake up to, I had that a few years ago, the cuddles, the kisses, the going out together.
now that you know who I am, I would love to get to know you, tell me about yourself :)
you'll have to boldly go where few have gone before:
*star trek theme plays* (Message me first).
Please up vote me.
I'm tired of fakes n flakes, not that it means anything.
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2021.09.25 02:44 Faction_Chief @USATODAY: An early draft of Arizona's presidential election audit report says Joe Biden beat Donald Trump in the state by an even larger margin. https://t.co/4GSMYNh2xP https://t.co/953Yq3v0g7

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2021.09.25 02:44 nvalenti27 He mad . .

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2021.09.25 02:44 sandstar115 Had this thought while listening to "Try and Love Again" by the Eagles...

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2021.09.25 02:44 Arkflow What's stopping you from becoming healthy?

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2021.09.25 02:44 Ok-Touch-7831 Wednesday meet up

I went to the Meetup on wednesday and the community showed up. There were chants like fuck Joe Biden and chaffee. When the boys came out the crowd went absolutely wild there were people climbing fences and climbing each other. I was at the front and when cousin came out with Gabe we got lit.
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