Need advice from mixed/biracial parents or those with kids that are biracial/mixed

2021.09.25 01:45 justhereinitlol Need advice from mixed/biracial parents or those with kids that are biracial/mixed

My (22) mum is Afro-Caribbean and my dad (60) is white. My child’s dominating ethnicity will be black due to their father, and dependent on genes may present as such, like my nephew(1) does. You would not know he’s 1/4 white unless it was told to you. (CONTEXT)
Anyway, now I’m having a child my dads views concern me when being said around my child. To put it frank he will not accept the black or mixed experience if it does not live up to his standard, I need to add he drinks A LOT; but this won’t stop his thoughts, just the aggression in how it is being said. Drunk minds speak sober thoughts and all that.
He won’t even really accept we have different experiences being a man and a woman lol. I see this as an issue because if I find it hurtful, offensive and feel misheard, my son could present like my nephew and it’d not only confuse him but possibly cause self hate if my views don’t trump my dads in my sons eyes.
Anyway, how do you navigate family members like this? Especially when your kids are going to be of different heritages, I can’t bare the thought of my drunk dad popping off to my son about this Shit or in his presence - but I also don’t ignore the stuff he’s saying because quite frankly he’s not right. Sometimes i feel like he goes on these tangents because he’s feeling erasure of his own ethnicity BUT he didn’t raise my brother, and he was around for me (kinda) but his family not so much. Besides the point of that, if that’s how somebody feels after having a mixed child, they probably should’ve rethought their reproductive decisions.
I need to add I’ve spoken to him about it, asked him to reign it in etc but it’s clear he won’t. My child probably won’t be in contact with him everyday but for the days he will I just don’t want that atmosphere. How do people navigate familial intolerances or just bullshit in general? Even if it’s a different form of prejudice?? I would ask/vent to a friend, but quite frankly it’s embarrassing!
TIA!
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