2021.10.19 23:38 Throwajay1997 My girlfriend (20f) and I (24m) were involved in a big altercation that sent me to the ER, but I still love her..
So my girlfriend of 3.5 years and myself have lived together with her cousin (18f) and her cousins boyfriend (18m) since March of this year. All 4 of us were on the lease and it doesn’t expire until the end of this month. We got along pretty well, played games, watched movies, etc. anyway, moving forward to October 6th, an argument (kind of loud) led to me leaving for the night and going and staying at my parents’ house. To be honest I think at this point we would argue more than we would communicate positively, and I was working so much and a different schedule than her so we didn’t have much time to fix things, and I was growing frustrated with her cousin and her boyfriend because they were so messy. Always making messes like on the stove and leaving the crumbs and empty food boxes everywhere i.e, so I just needed to leave to find some peace. All three of them are super close, but I felt like I didn’t blend well with them. Never did. Anyway, so all that night, and the next morning, she was blowing up my phone wanting me to come home and fix things, give her love, etc, I was super conflicted for some reason, like I felt like if I went over there she would do this thing where she traps me in the room until I make up with her, so I left her on read. As the 7th of October hit around 7pm, I decided I’d go back to the apartment and finally give us the opportunity to hash things out. You know, I’ll tell her why I left, be real, and hopefully she would share her frustrations and we can work together for a solution, something we’ve been needing for a while. As I approached (I walked) the apartment complex, I saw her cousin getting dropped off from work, her cousin was there during the argument that led to me leaving the night before, so I felt a little uncomfortable, so I walked to my car that was still parked there and sat in it. I decided maybe I just come back in an hour, so I turn my car on to leave, and her cousin walks behind my car, and like grabs on to the spoiler and is like “you’re not going anywhere” and starts contacting my girlfriend to come out. That definitely made me uncomfortable so I waited for her to step away enough to where I wouldn’t hit her and took off with my car and decided not to go back at this time. As we got closer to the end of the day, that’s when I realized I NEEDED to go back because my work keys and clothes were over there and I had work at 6am the next morning, and I needed to unlock the store. This is where things get wild.
So I ask my brother if he can take me because we were sitting outside and he already had his keys in hand and he said sure, so we hop in his car and head over. I go to unlock the door and it’s locked to the deadbolt. So I couldn’t get it. I knocked and asked if they can let me in and my girlfriend said something along the lines of “go fuck your self” and I said “can I at least have my keys I have to go to work in the morning” and she was just shouting more so I got a little upset and started banging on the door and they wouldn’t budge. Now here is where I make my mistake, I thought, “my keys are in the room, on the little shelf by the window, if I just get in through the window, grab the keys, I can get right back out and be ready for work” so I go and just shatter our room window, and jump up on the ledge, as soon as I do, her cousin and her cousins boyfriend run into the room, and I said, man you’re really coming in here? And he said, “you broke the window” and as I’m landing on the bed from the ledge he swings at me twice and i lunge for his legs because I really just want my keys I’m not trying to get physical with anyone. As I lunge down he uses his knees to catch me and he holds me down, well I think for whatever reason the cousin of my girlfriend thought that was well enough of a reason to pull out a knife from the kitchen and she comes to the room shouting “I’m gonna fucking stab you” and stabs me two times, one on my right shoulder, the other on my back, literally putting a hole in my left lung. Mind you, I was held down at the time and prior to this moment, I was trying to figure out a game plan to get the keys, but felt guilty for the window because like, I don’t want her to have to sleep in a room with a broken window, so I was thinking on how fast it would take to tape up and clean or something. Then BOOM. My brother was shouting from the window as he witnessed everything, and ran around to the front door and told a neighbor who then both began banging on the door to let them in. Nobody budged, and eventually the busted the door in, and my brother ran into the room, pushed the boyfriend off of me, and threw a water bottle at the cousin and pulled me out. I was covered in blood, more blood then I’ve ever seen at once. And I ran outside as they were yelling at us and just yelled back at them. Back and forth. Then my girlfriend and her cousin called the cops on me saying I was “trespassing” and started talking a bunch of shit. I started to feel extremely off, so I was honestly a little glad they decided to call them. As they arrived, two officers both took notes from both sides, where I began losing consciousness while stating my side. I did hear an officer say however that I was definitely not trespassing and that as a rent payer and lease signee I had every right to be in the apartment, and that there isn’t a law against breaking windows. That’s when her incrimination began, she stabbed me, more than once. When I had no intention to cause harm to ANYBODY. I really loved my girlfriend, and I would never do anything to her cousin, and her boyfriend and I got along pretty well. However, after the cops mentioned what she did, the story switched, “he cut me, look at my finger!” And she had a little cut that was most likely either from the broken window glass or from stabbing me with the knife, not too sure how it happened. My girlfriend joined in “yeah, he cut her look!” And then she called her mom and step dad and they show up and they’re all mugging me like I’m the enemy here when I can barely stay focused in the situation because I’m out of it. This is where I get taken away on the ER, and her cousin gets arrested for a felony assault.
I find out I had liters of blood in my lung, and if it wasn’t for the chest tube that began pouring that out I would of died, at the same time, I had a hole in my lung, which collapsed. So after some procedure I get placed in ICU. Her cousin bonded out in two days. And I sent a text to my girlfriend saying that I declined to press charges, and that I want to help them, I don’t want her cousin to face charges, I don’t want her to get convicted because I don’t want to see her life messed up etc. completely ignored me. I send her more messages and she starts screenshotting. I assume she wants to make sure her cousin is okay before she speaks to me, they’re a super small family so really close. So I believed that maybe I had to be the enemy until she was innocent, and I respected that. Then I find out they’re still playing the victim card and that they were “fearing for their lives” through a source. She doesn’t block me on Snapchat and she watches all my stories. I’m still currently in the hospital as of Oct. 19, and I just had surgery yesterday, and I also have two chest tubes in me at the moment. She’s not reaching out, she’s just watching what I post. But for some reason I just have hope that if everything goes in her cousins favor legally that we have hope to continue, at the same time, I feel like I should of pressed charges and that they really don’t give a shit about me at this point. I’m sure their entire family, grandparents and all, have heard that I went there to viciously attack them or something of that nature. And I’m just wondering.. is this a dead relationship? It just doesn’t make sense, we had issues, but not like this. I get stabbed, something I would never expect from ANY of them, I looked highly to all of them, and then dropped by all of them on the same night, when just the week prior we were all hanging out having a good time. It just feels like a double whammy loss to me and I don’t know how to take it.
TL;DR: my girlfriend and I were having issues so I was locked out of our apartment, I broke in because I needed my work keys, didn’t want violence but got stabbed by her female cousin and almost died from a collapsed lung. They’re playing a victim card to their whole family to make me look bad, I just want everything to be normal again
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2021.10.19 23:38 seaboigium Tell me 10 random facts about your alt-history projects
I really hope this is allowed here.
I thought it would be a cool idea to let members of this subreddit share their work by giving 10 random facts about people, places, and events in their alt-history projects.
If you have less or more than 10 facts to share, that's ok.
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2021.10.19 23:38 Suave_Jelepeno Boston Acoustics VR-10 repair
I have a spare Boston acoustics VR-10 I acquired the last year. I've noticed that the sound is a bid muddier than the primary one I use and I think it may be a failing capacitor. As a technician, I don't fully see the point of testing it with a multimeter without the capacitor test function. I figured I would just replace them all since a capacitor can't be crazy expensive. Does anyone know where I could find a schematic for this speaker. BA being so old, I have no idea who to ask.
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2021.10.19 23:38 V01t4r3 Always remember…
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2021.10.19 23:38 FerociousPinecone Do not hold ET in an IRA
Holding ET in an IRA negates the tax-advantaged shielding from the account, however holding in a Trad IRA gives you less profit than if you held in your taxable brokerage acct.
I knew that unrelated business taxable income (UBTI) was taxable even when held within an IRA if exceeding $1k, however ET's K-1's have kept this number low so I figured I was in the clear or the taxes would be negligible and the distributions offsetting my cost basis would have no impact based on the account being tax-advantaged.
Turns out that capital gains can either count towards UBTI upon sale or at least become factored into the equation. This means that the govt takes a big wet bite out of your ass upon sale will your bill in your 990-T. My understanding is that this will get taken out of your IRA balance by your brokerage on the due date, so the silver lining is you don't have to pay out of your savings.
This sucks twice as hard because that money will be taxed a second time when you hit retirement age and withdraw from your Trad IRA. Even if you did it in a Roth, you'll still need to pay the first ~30% tax from the sale.
Save yourself the hassle and only ever invest in this in a traditional brokerage account.
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2021.10.19 23:38 posties413 SSR/nodejs in multiple regions
I have read up on serverless next with lambda, but how would you be able to redirect traffic to the nearest instance, say running on a vps, to achieve the 'same' sort of thing?
I want to have users connect to the nearest nuxt instance in this case.
I guess this would apply to any server rendered content/api.
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2021.10.19 23:38 Johnx235eastwe hey guys, what is all the commands for the test server?
2021.10.19 23:38 Lone_Wolf_624 What would cause someone to assume that people they've met and may have even known very well, from their past won't remember them at all?
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2021.10.19 23:38 darkhunter225 Felt cute might join duty later
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2021.10.19 23:38 DivideDG3 From a 2019 Applicant to You
Hi all! A bit of background on me, I am a current college sophomore who applied to Questbridge in 2019.
To those of you who got matched, congratulations! I wish you well in the match/regular decision!
And to those who did not get selected as finalists, try not to be too hard on yourself. Just because Questbridge did not accept you as a finalist doesn't mean that you can't be accepted into those top schools! I know some people that got denied as finalists, denied during the match, and denied during regular decision that still were able to go to one of Questbridge's partners!
You put in the effort to apply for this scholarship. You put in the hard work. Keep that effort. I promise you it will get you far in both your applications and in college itself. Not being labeled as a finalist does not mean you aren't academically capable or anything of the sort. So please, don't be discouraged. If you wanted to apply to Harvard, do it! If you wanted to be matched with Boston U, apply to them! You still have a chance to get into these schools! I believe in you.
I know that it may seem like losing the opportunity at free college through Questbridge could halt your dreams of college. For me, I felt the same way. Despite being a finalist I did not match nor got accepted through QB regular decision. Fast forward to today and I am getting a generous amount of financial aid! Need-Based colleges (which a lot of QBs scholars are) are great in terms of helping low income students afford college. Plus, there are other scholarships out there! I recommend using the Discover Student Scholarship Search or Scholarship America to search for some, and those will greatly help you pay for college as well.
TLDR, finalist or not you still have a chance at an amazing education at an affordable price. Just keep putting in the work. Be proud of yourself, whether you were a finalist or not, because the application process itself is grueling. And don't lose hope, there's a lot more opportunities out there for you, you just need to keep looking! <3
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2021.10.19 23:38 betacassiopeia Hair is thinning, please help.
I’ve always had thick hair growing up but these past couple years it’s been getting thinner. Is there any shampoo that y’all use that could help me? Doesn’t have to be just shampoo though. I have long brown hair and it’s naturally a little wavy if that helps anyone.
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2021.10.19 23:38 UysofSpades Please Help With Git Repo Design
Our team is engaging in a new project where we will be utilizing the following platforms: Azure, MuleSoft, and Salesforce.
I am trying to figure out a repository design that would allow our agile scrum team to take a user story (that *could* involve work across the different platforms).
I am wanting to know if I should design the approach of having a single repo with all "production-ready" artifacts from the platforms OR having them segregated by platform.. If I take the latter approach, I am unsure how to appropriately keep them in sync. Upper management would like to version all platforms the same, rather than version each platform independently.
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2021.10.19 23:38 CatMom03 Officially Registered for EMT Certification... Any Advice?
I just met with a college advisor today and all the requirements for the EMT certification program has been completed (it was a lot). Holy immunizations first of all. I'm really nervous. Is it wise to have a reliable laptop to take notes or is papepen still the way to go? Any advice? I'll be going during the evenings twice a week and have one Saturday class a month. I'll start in December and end in February.
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2021.10.19 23:38 kennygrow2222 Azure SSO app does it require app proxy to work?
Lets say you have an on premise HTTPS app that supports SAML
You provision the app in azure enteprise apps with the URL of the internal SAML web app.
Does it need to go through the azure app proxy for it to work ?
Or will it work by the following